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Lindsey Lou
10-24-04, 09:46 PM
My dad's always blaming things on me. :( :( :( :( :( This morning my mom told him that they were going to take his van to church because I started work at 9. He goes to me when I'm out of the room, "Get ready, I'm taking you to church." So I go to him, "Um, you don't need to get an aditude with me. MOM said that YOU AND HER were TAKING the van to church." He gave me the dirtiest look. Just now he tells me that I should take his bowl upstairs. I wasn't going upstairs yet! I was just standing up!! I told my mom. She's pissed at him now. I feel so unwelcome now :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( And my brother started work at 10, and my older bro started earlier. I told my dad that its not fair that the little bro always has a car!! I'm pissed as hell!! I sit home most weekends bored to hell because my dad has a car, and my brother has the other one!! Most of my friends don't drive either, and the one's that do don't feel like driving all the way to my house because I do live so far away from them. Worst part about it is my parents will be married 25 years on the 27th (I think that's Wednesday), and my mom cannot stand my dad right now. :cries: :cries: :scared: I don't know what to do anymore. Its like my brother's don't exist. I'm always the one that he makes do everything!! I'm beginning to hate my dad. Yes, I know its a bit harsh, but ya know, I was trying to spend a little time with the family, instead of being locked in my room, like I am right now. My god, why must he insist in me leaving the room all the time? I stood up to pet the cat that my older brother Kenny had been petting while we were watching South Park. I want to cry. I feel like I've been kicked out of the house by him since I've turned 18!! That's so not right, is it? :( :( :( :( :( What should I do?

Gidget
10-24-04, 10:01 PM
((hugs)) i'm sorry, sweetie! i know how you feel, i think every daughter has those moments with their father. dad's just don't know how to communicate with girls...lol! if ya need to talk, pm me! :)

Lindsey Lou
10-24-04, 10:08 PM
Ugh, and I'm the only girl!! Don't forget that!! UGH!! Parents, I mean dads!! Ugh!! I've never really been his little girl. I'm a momma's girl. That's me alright!

Gidget
10-24-04, 10:10 PM
i'm a momma's girl too...and the only girl. dad's just don't get it. don't let it hurt you. it's not that our dad's don't love us, they just don't get us...lol!

Lindsey Lou
10-24-04, 10:11 PM
Its basically spoken that in his years of parenting, he's enjoyed my two brothers more than me. My mom has spoiled me rotten. I get more at Christmas than they do

Gidget
10-24-04, 10:16 PM
see but he's a guy so he gets your brothers. and your mom is a girl so she gets you. dad's are stupid sometimes. us girls just have to let it roll off our backs.

Lindsey Lou
10-25-04, 05:55 AM
Thats so right :)

Kristen07
10-25-04, 07:40 PM
I'm sorry your so upset, Linds :( I know how it is,
I definitely feel like my dad doesn't me or my mom sometimes. But as Kay said, itr doesn't mean that our dad don't love us, they just don't know how to communicate with us sometimes.

Lindsey Lou
10-26-04, 06:08 AM
I'm better now, thanks :)

Gidget
10-26-04, 09:17 PM
glad to know you're better, girlie! :)

Lindsey Lou
10-26-04, 09:41 PM
Thanks Kay! :)

Gidget
10-26-04, 09:50 PM
welcome! :)

Lindsey Lou
10-26-04, 09:58 PM
:)

Gidget
10-26-04, 10:04 PM
aww...look! drew wants to dance for ya! :dance:

Lindsey Lou
10-26-04, 10:31 PM
Looks to me like he wants to get it on with me :P

Gidget
10-27-04, 09:29 PM
okay...if you say so...lmao

Lindsey Lou
10-27-04, 09:46 PM
Lol. :P I'm more than sure!! :P